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Dear @cyclesandsex,

My partner is well-endowed and sometimes I can’t take it - literally. While this might seem like a fake problem and I’m knocking the gift horse in the mouth, this is a real obstacle (if you will) in the bedroom. My partner and I are both adventurous and would like to try new things (legs in the air etc) but because I am petite and he is “blessed” some things seem to be hard for me to enjoy...Any suggestions as to how we can explore more and both enjoy?




Dear #SizeMatters

Having a well endowed partner can seem like a ‘fake problem’ but it is truly a real one. I think this is a perfect example where sex toys can really enhance your experience. Cock rings and penis sheaths can be a great way to control the amount of your partner you’re receiving while still giving him pleasure. Also exploring personally with progressively larger size dildos can help accustomed you to a bigger size if your goal is to be penetrated completely by your partner one day. It may take some patience and time. Oh, and never forget the lube!

All the best,

Amy Boyajian

Amy Boyajian is the Founder and CEO of wildflowersex, an all-inclusive, online sexual wellness boutique. A former dominatrix, Amy created Wild Flower as an organic retaliation to the unethical and discriminatory practices in the sex and pleasure industries. Check out for more!------

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